Times Of Swaziland: TO ALL SINGLE LADIES

TO ALL SINGLE LADIES
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The Editor on 27/03/2017 07:42:00


Sir,
Who said we need a guy to make us feel blissful and fulfilled ladies? We are the
engines which bring about happiness and joy to this world and, on top of that,
we are go-getters.
Human beings always want what they don’t have instead of accepting what God
has given them. We always want what someone else has instead of adoring what we
have. We are always paralleling ourselves to other people, let alone comparing
our stuff to other people’s stuff.
We are always thinking; “If only I can have that guy I would be happy,”
really now! Don’t get me wrong, it’s lovely to have someone in your life, to
share special moments, secrets and affection with. I know of people who are in
unfulfilling relationships but are still lonely, which speaks to my point,
it’s not about being single or in a relationship, it’s about delighting in
the status you currently have.
When you are single ladies, you should be delighted in your own company; if you
cannot stand being alone why would anyone else want to be with you?
Nothing beats the autonomy of going wherever you want at any time, come back
home and having the remote control next to you on the couch. When you are young
and free, your obligation is to enjoy everything that is under the shadow of the
sun.
A majority of people think that looking your best as a girl means you are going
out on a date. You don’t have to dress all up when you are going out on a date
because that will simply contribute to your lack of self-confidence and
relaxation. It’s best to be on your pre-eminent but make sure you are good to
face the world.
As a lady, always look your best but you do not have to look stunning just
because you are man-hunting, you will get exhausted of it. Ladies you do not
need to hunt for a man, the right one is waiting for you around the corner.
Nkosing’phile NtshaliNtshali