Times Of Swaziland: LIFE’S A PLAY, EXCELLENCE MATTERS OVER LENGTH

LIFE’S A PLAY, EXCELLENCE MATTERS OVER LENGTH
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Bongani Smelane on 16/11/2024 06:46:00


Most people don’t win awards like a Tony, an Oscar or a Golden Globe. They
play their part, and that’s it.
The curtain falls, and it’s over. This reminds us that life is that way too.
Most of us just go about our day, playing our part. And then it is over. This
also reminds us that this isn’t always the case. Some people manage to put a
lot of excellence into their lives, regardless of length. And the statement also
implies that there are plenty with very long lives, but with very little
excellence. A very long play, poorly acted, is a terrible thing to suffer. A
much shorter play, excellently acted leaves you aching for more. But with life,
it’s not an either-or proposition. We can be both excellent, and lead a long
life, even though we only have control over one of those things.
Without excellence, we have mediocrity, or worse. That’s not the kind of life
I want to live. Now what constitutes excellence will be a very personal
decision. I know some people who make great quilts and blankets. They might even
be excellent. But it’s not where I want to invest my time. Instead, I write
articles and books, or at least try. To many people, that’s a complete waste
of time. But it is something I enjoy and work hard to be good at. That’s just
like plays or movies. Some like romances, others like action. Whatever you like,
you want to watch one that is excellent, not just long.
We have no control over the length of our lives, but we can control how we
manage what time we have. Excellence is always an option. We can work on
something that makes a difference. We can work our way towards that which we
feel is a worthy expression of excellence. For those readers who are old enough,
you may remember a young teen named Ryan White. Born a hemophiliac, he
contracted HIV/AIDS from a blood transfusion and diagnosed in December of 1984.
Excellence
He helped raise awareness about HIV/AIDS, and that anyone can get it. His
excellence helped people understand that it was a disease everyone faced, and he
helped improve the safety of our blood supply. In his short life, he helped save
more lives than most doctors could dream of doing. His was, unfortunately, a
short but excellent life. What are the things you enjoy doing? What do you do
well enough to if not be considered excellent at it, at least are close enough
that you might be able to get there? Are there any things which are on both
lists? You don’t have to be ready to change the world, just yourself.
You don’t have to be ready to sign with a major label and go on tour if you
wish to work on your singing voice. Some of the best voices I have known
aren’t interested in that life. They just enjoy singing, and are very
excellent at it. We were fortunate to get two of them to sing at my friend’s
wedding, and they helped make an excellent day even better. My skills as a
writer might get me a job in that field but I am not focusing on that, I just
enjoy it, and keep getting better and more skilled. I pursue excellence in
something I like. What do you do, what do you enjoy, at what could you become
excellent?
Do you have a hobby or even something at work you enjoy and could work at which
you could become more skilled? What would that be like, to be considered
excellent at something? Even if it was something trivial like fixing a broken
stapler? We all have skills and abilities, and we all have the ability to become
excellent at something. But it will take effort and it will take time. If we
don’t want to be excellent, it will be awfully hard to get there. However,
sometimes fate conspires against us.
I seriously doubt Ryan White wanted to be excellent in the manner he did.
However, he rose to the occasion, and lived a most excellent life. It is
doubtful that any of us will end up with that level of excellence thrust on us,
but it would be nice to think that we would be willing to rise to the occasion.
The play has already started. You have no idea when the final curtain will fall.
All you can do is do your best, to strive for excellence, in each act, on each
day, until it is over. Will you be remembered as having been excellent at
something? I hope so. Even if it’s just by your closest friends, just be
excellent.