TO ALL SINGLE LADIES
Sir,
Who said we need a guy to make us feel blissful and fulfilled ladies? We are the engines which bring about happiness and joy to this world and, on top of that, we are go-getters.
Human beings always want what they don’t have instead of accepting what God has given them. We always want what someone else has instead of adoring what we have. We are always paralleling ourselves to other people, let alone comparing our stuff to other people’s stuff.
We are always thinking; “If only I can have that guy I would be happy,” really now! Don’t get me wrong, it’s lovely to have someone in your life, to share special moments, secrets and affection with. I know of people who are in unfulfilling relationships but are still lonely, which speaks to my point, it’s not about being single or in a relationship, it’s about delighting in the status you currently have.
When you are single ladies, you should be delighted in your own company; if you cannot stand being alone why would anyone else want to be with you?
Nothing beats the autonomy of going wherever you want at any time, come back home and having the remote control next to you on the couch. When you are young and free, your obligation is to enjoy everything that is under the shadow of the sun.
A majority of people think that looking your best as a girl means you are going out on a date. You don’t have to dress all up when you are going out on a date because that will simply contribute to your lack of self-confidence and relaxation. It’s best to be on your pre-eminent but make sure you are good to face the world.
As a lady, always look your best but you do not have to look stunning just because you are man-hunting, you will get exhausted of it. Ladies you do not need to hunt for a man, the right one is waiting for you around the corner.
Nkosing’phile NtshaliNtshali
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