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A CRUEL TRAGEDY

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 Sir,

In relationships, we usually wish what’s best for each other in every way; we always give assurance to love unconditionally, grow old with each other and to die lying in one’s arms. This is a very astonishing feeling but is it the norm nowadays?
In this day and age, we want to jump into relationships that will throw us into the ocean such that we wouldn’t find our way back.


Whenever we are in relationships, one thing always leads to another, we usually find ourselves assenting to do things that we are not ready to do to please the opposite partner.
The sense of sight leads to conversations, hugs, a date, a kiss and a baby - a baby whom you have not planned for.


Abortion is not an easy thing to do, it is very hazardous because you could die, have womb damage and you may not be able to carry your baby to full term in future. It may seem to be the elucidation for now but living with the regret for the rest of your life is extreme torture.


Abortion


In most cases, women consider this act because of partners who deny their babies. Abortion is a grave offence against God and His creation. No matter how hard one can try, no one can never obliterate what abortion does; time does not erase murder or ease the reality of what it is.


It is a cruel tragedy, it is also a choice that should never be made and such a choice stays with us forever.
The baby is a long life connection born from temporary lust and once abortion transpires, one may experience moments when they have to supplicate themselves to stop crying. It can be one of those days when you wish you were a little girl, could climb into your mother’s lap and cry until the hurt goes away.


I am really not judging anyone who has been through it or to bring back painful memories, but I strongly advice those who were about to make that decision that this is a sad, painful lesson.
Getting frazzled and crying because of not knowing how you will raise that baby in you does not mean that you are weak; it simply means you have a heart.
May you please not consider abortion, those cravings will build a strong bond between you and your baby, once he tells you he wants to rest and he is hungry, you know what do.
Once you look at him, hold him, everything will change; so keep that soul for the world.

Nkosing’phile NtshaliNtshali


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