FREEDOM OF CHOICES

Sir,

We are always told our lives are shaped by our decisions and choices. Whatever we choose to do, choose to be and choose to have, determine the kind of life we will lead. Emotions we will go through and possessions we will possess. In every second of every day we are imposed to make choices; we have to choose whether to do or not do everything, how to do it, when, with who and why. Now imagine a life where you have no one but yourself; no parent, no sibling, no friend and no spouse. Practically, no one interferes with or questions your choices but yourself. You have the freedom to choose whatever you want and do as it pleases you, without getting an evil eye from anyone else. There are only three possibilities involved; you can choose not to do anything, which is very unlikely or you are likely to make the right choices if you have thought hard on them and considered all facts and possibilities, and succeed.

Thirdly, you are also likely to make the wrong choices; if you let your emotions and feelings get the better of you and cloud your judgement, you will consequently fail with regret and disgrace. Your life is about you, always been and always will be. You should always fight for whatever is important to you. Whatever you do with your life, you become the first person to suffer the consequences of your actions, or enjoy the fruits of your hard work. However, it is God’s plan and no mistake that we have families and friends who love and care about us. They will always worry about what we do or go through, even when we assume they don’t. Sometimes they take their time to check if we’ve eaten, went to school or work and how the day went.

Frustrated

Sometimes we feel frustrated when our parents, friends, colleagues and spouses temper with our choices, strongly because we feel like they are suppose to step back and let us do and be whatever we want. However, you are always lucky, and you should be grateful when you still have a person who will take their time, resources and energy to advice or assist you on your choices before you make them, without expecting anything back from you. Some don’t have such a person, and they always wish there was, especially when they have made wrong choices, regretted and hated themselves for it. For you to get ahead, you need to start moving now. Whatever route you choose to take, it is your decision to make. You might be lucky enough to move towards greener pastures, you’ll be resourceful and likely to be successful. At the end of the day you’ll be proud of yourself and celebrate your success. Sometimes luck will turn it’s back on you, and things won’t go as you wished or planned. You’ll feel unlucky, begin to doubt yourself and lose confidence in your next decisions.

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