MEN LOVE HAVING POWER

Sir,

The truth is some men will go out of their way to date a woman they consider ‘weak’. This woman could have low self-esteem, no car, no money or maybe going through a break-up. Men will target these women and attract them by being the ‘good guy’ and shower them with money and gifts so that they become dependent on them. At times these men will build a woman’s confidence up just enough to make her feel good enough for him and only him. Men get this sense of security that the girl won’t leave them because he came along and ‘saved’ them.

Control

They feel like they’re in control of the relationship, and men love having power. He will use this woman for sex or attention from his friends. In reality, these men are weak, insecure, pathetic and very unappreciative than the woman. They will find a way to keep her as close to them as possible and make sure she is too weak and dependent on them to leave. These men will make sure they always have something to keep the girl around. I have made an observation that neediness isn’t determined by what a person actually does or say, but the intention behind what they do or say.

Relationships

What we’ll find is that there seems to be a very fundamental component of human relationships and that is this: you only deal with as much manipulation as you’re willing to deal with, and after you get what you want, there really is no more reason to stay. Now, I know nobody thinks they are willing to deal with manipulative behaviours from their partners, but the truth is that most of us are terrible judges of manipulative behaviour, both in our partners and also in ourselves.

Situation

Some women use their vulnerable situation knowing very well that men are attracted to vulnerability and if they show enough of this neediness, men will prey on them like vultures.  In this game we call life we have predators and we have prey. Believe it or not these two groups are co-dependent upon one another. Men depend on women to be vulnerable, and women use this susceptibility to attract favours from men. That is a sad truth that we need to come to terms with. All the odds are against us, and only when we become independent will we start winning.

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