MEN LET US FIGHT GBV

Sir,

To all my dear brothers out there, yinyandzaleyo kumatima madvodza! Let us all get together and fight one common enemy. Let us find a way out of this evil that has become a norm in our society. I have no doubt that being the men we are, we can find a solution. After all, these are our mothers and sisters.

Control

I look at a child whose mother has died through the hands of a man and my heart bleeds. We have control over this, we can stop this. We can overcome our emotions and put our anger under control. We can do it madvodza, we can change our concept of having total control over our women. Let us think about all the pain and the grief we cause by killing our women. It is not only their children that we make to suffer when we kill them, but also their families and society as a whole. I remember how difficult it was for me to part with my Nomsa, when I discovered she had found new love, but I had to take it like a man and let her go.

Issue

Some of us will harm a woman even when she becomes honest with us that she wants out. The issue here is not about love, but about a man who wants to exercise his control over a woman. I am aware of men who have been able to raise their children single handedly when their spouses left them. But these wonderful men did the right thing and never harmed these women.

Think of how it would be easy for you to let go of her and find another woman, than for you to spend your life in jail. Where will your children be, your relatives and your friends? The years and the time you will spend in jail can never be regained, and your name will be tarnished. Above all, you will always have that cloud hanging over you. By controlling your emotions and running away from GBV, you will always be that hero ndvodza yakitsi.

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