MORE PEOPLE BECOMING BEASTS

Sir,

As I observe the state of our world today, it is increasingly apparent that citizens are becoming more inhumane, uncontrollable and dangerous. Each month brings fresh reports of abuse, murder and unimaginable cruelty.

This prompts a crucial question: what drives people to commit such heinous acts? We often hear of couples, once blissfully married, who turn against one another in the most brutal of ways. Are these individuals inherently bad? Not necessarily. Many people are loving, caring and responsible towards their families.

Causes

When I learn that a man has killed his wife or girlfriend, I find myself pondering the underlying causes of such a tragic choice before jumping to conclusions. Some time back, I was shocked to learn of a God-fearing man who took the lives of both himself and his beloved—someone he was meant to protect.

As I dug deeper into his life, I discovered that he was humble, respectful, kind and generous. This revelation tormented me, leaving me to wonder why he would commit such an unthinkable act against someone he was supposed to care for. I became convinced that, if given the chance, he would deeply regret his actions.  This led me to contemplate what might be occurring behind closed doors, what hidden turmoil exists in relationships that remains shielded from public view? The stark reality is that not every individual who commits murder is inherently capable of such violence. If a woman recognised that her partner had the potential for such brutality, she would likely seek ways to avoid living with him.

Danger

No woman would willingly place herself in danger by marrying a criminal, murderer or liar. Women typically choose partners whom they believe will be good husbands. If I were a pastor, I might suggest that there is a demonic influence that takes hold when anger erupts within a human being. In today’s society, many people struggle to manage their anger; instead, it often seizes control of them.

This loss of self-control can lead even the most responsible citizens to commit acts of violence. When anger flares, individuals can become unrecognisable, losing their senses and acting in ways that defy logic. We all know that when we are furious, we can do irrational things, even breaking cherished possessions without intending to; simply as a manifestation of our overwhelming emotions. While we cannot entirely eliminate feelings of anger, we can learn to control them. It is imperative that we take steps to manage our reactions.

Clarity

The moment you feel your blood beginning to boil, resist the urge to listen to the tumultuous thoughts that invade your mind. Engaging in conversation with neutral, understanding individuals can be a powerful antidote to anger. These conversations can provide clarity and help to calm tempestuous emotions. In conclusion, we must cultivate a culture of emotional intelligence, where open dialogue and support can prevent the dark outcomes of unchecked anger. By doing so, we can begin to stem the tide of inhumanity and violence that threatens the fabric of our society.

Philisiwe Mdluli

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