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AVOID REGRETTABLE CHOICES THIS FESTIVE SEASON

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Sir,

The festive season, a time traditionally reserved for merriment and cherished memories with our loved ones, it is imperative to reflect on the duality of the period.

While holidays offer an invaluable opportunity for respite and connection, they can also be fraught with peril, sorrow and regrettable choices. The onus rests upon each individual to navigate these moments with heightened responsibility and acute awareness of their surroundings and actions, lest we find ourselves ensnared in circumstances that might overshadow our enjoyment. The holiday season serves as a well-deserved reward, a time to celebrate the culmination of another year’s endeavours, while simultaneously laying the groundwork for new beginnings.

Experiences

In Eswatini, many citizens embark on road trips, attend weddings, and partake in festive gatherings, all of which can be delightful experiences. However, it is crucial to ensure that in our pursuit of enjoyment, we do not lose sight of our better selves. Indeed, we encounter a myriad of personalities during these occasions, even among family and friends, which necessitates a vigilant approach to ensure our safety and well-being. Statistics reveal a troubling reality—during the month of July alone, approximately 101 cases of sexual violence were reported, including heinous acts of rape and sexual assault.Such incidents, often perpetrated by acquaintances or those within one’s social circle, highlight a disturbing breach of trust. Victims frequently remain silent, gripped by fear of retaliation or societal judgement, thus perpetuating a cycle of violence and shame. It is imperative that we dismantle this silence; as the saying goes, “A problem shared is a problem halved.”

Suffer

Those who suffer must be empowered to speak out, for their courage could indeed inspire others to do the same. To the women who find themselves disproportionately affected by these crimes, I implore you to come forth and report any acts of aggression or violation. Your bravery may illuminate a path for others who have endured similar tribulations. Remain vigilant of your environment, and if your instincts urge caution, heed them. Seek solace in the simple pleasures of life—read a book, indulge in a hobby, or simply rest. Knowledge and skills are far more valuable than transient amusement. Conversely, it is vital to recognise that women can also perpetrate violence. Anger, particularly when unresolved in relationships, can lead to regrettable actions. Rather than resorting to physical aggression, I encourage a measured response. Take a moment to breathe, reflect, and engage in dialogue.

Reputation

Your reputation is a delicate construct, and one act of violence can irreparably tarnish it. To the men, let us dismantle the archaic notion that a woman’s attire invites unwanted advances. Real strength lies in self-control and respect. Women are not mere objects to be possessed; they are multifaceted beings deserving of dignity. As men, we must embody qualities of leadership and integrity, safeguarding both our own reputations and those of others. As the poet Khalil Gibran aptly stated: “Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of life’s longing for itself.” Just as we nurture our offspring, we must also nurture a culture of respect and honour. In conclusion, let us collectively strive to foster an environment of safety and joy as we bid farewell to 2024. It is a clarion call for unity against sexual violence, be it as perpetrators or victims.

Tebe

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