DON’T SPOIL OUR CULTURE!

Sir,

On Saturday 28, 2024, around 12:30 pm, while I was patiently waiting for a ride to Manzini town after attending Sabbath church services, I found myself in an unexpected, demeaning and disheartening situation.

A group of young individuals, who appeared to be Lusekwane boys between the ages of 8 and 20, dressed in emajobo, pulled up in a van and began - without any provocation whatsoever - to hurl a barrage of unprintable insults at me, specifically questioning why I was wearing a hat! Their taunts were loud, intimidating and boisterous, echoing through the quiet street, and I was taken aback by their audacity and lack of decorum.

Remarks

The remarks they made were not only deeply hurtful, but also left me utterly astonished. As a 66 year-old senior citizen, I have lived through many experiences and have encountered my fair share of challenges, yet I never expected to be subjected to such disrespect from a group of children. While I may not possess the authority to demand respect from anyone, I believe that my status as their elder should have warranted at least a modicum of consideration and civility. It is disheartening to think that the values of respect and kindness may be lost on the younger generation.

Intimidate

Their intent seemed clear: To intimidate and belittle me over something as trivial as a hat, an accessory that holds no real significance beyond personal expression. In that moment, I made the conscious decision to disregard their behaviour, choosing not to engage with their cruelty and uncouth behaviour. In their numbers, they ganged up against a single individual old enough to be their granddad.

However, this incident raises a troubling question: Is it becoming a cultural norm for young people, specifically those who partake in traditional cultural ceremonies to insult others simply because they feel ‘superior’ and untouchable because of their participation in national cultural ceremonies? This kind of conduct is indeed regrettable and speaks to a larger issue of empathy and respect in our society. It is a reminder that we must strive to foster a culture of kindness and understanding, regardless of age or circumstance. After this experience, I couldn’t help but feel that this kind of behaviour creates a clear divide among EmaSwati. It’s essential for those who uphold our culture to actively discourage such troubling and shameful actions.

Culture should serve to unite us as citizens. No one has the right to roam around insulting or disrespecting others simply because they believe that attending national cultural events elevates them to a status of superiority.

Alex Nxumalo

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